How does one succeed in life?
10.06.2025 04:41
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Ask yourself:
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
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First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Procrastinates a lot.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
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I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
What I need from you?
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
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Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
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Does not procrastinate.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
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Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
How do I study with focus and concentration and avoid distractions and procrastination?
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
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Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
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How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Why did you put a guy’s dick in your mouth the first time?
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
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That's it for today.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
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Do not set goals—set systems.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Making more friends is a goal.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.